Reclaiming My Focus: Is Instagram Still Worth It?

In a world designed to capture and monetize our attention, maintaining focus has become a daily battle. Reclaiming our attention, focus and energy has become a quiet, yet profound act of defiance.

Five years ago, during the Covid pandemic, I found myself in a similar place—reevaluating what truly served me. One of the changes I made was removing Facebook from my life. At the time, it felt like a relief, a weight lifted. I didn’t miss it and in a way, I felt lighter. Now, I find myself asking the same question about Instagram: Is it still a meaningful addition to my life? Or has it become another massive distraction that leaves me feeling scattered and overwhelmed? A distraction pulling me away from the life I’m intentionally creating.

Checking Instagram has become a compulsion and once I start scrolling, it becomes very difficult to stop. It’s like my brain becomes hypnotized. What may begin as a quick check-in easily turns into an unconscious scrolling session, pulling me away from the present moment and scattering my attention across an endless stream of content.

I once loved Instagram for its beautiful and thoughtful photos — it felt inspiring. But over time, it has become increasingly fast-paced, overwhelming, and saturated with noise, negativity, and endless opinions. In my opinion, it’s turning into Facebook in many ways.

And then there’s the pressure — the unspoken demand to constantly post, create, and tailor content to please the algorithm. It’s exhausting. Whenever I feel pressured by anything or anyone, my instinct is to push back, to resist. How did we lose the joy in the process?

I crave depth, long-form over fleeting captions, beauty over performance. But lately, I’ve come to a realization: Instagram feels more like noise and distraction than a source of beauty, inspiration, or joy.

That’s why I’ve decided to step away from Instagram for a month. During this time, I want to focus on what truly fulfills and brings me joy — writing, nurturing my dogs, blog, and turning my garden into a masterpiece (big plans coming up!) I also want to dedicate more time to reading books, blogs, and magazines, and find inspiration on Pinterest—content that’s slower, richer, and easier on the brain to ‘digest.’ After that month, I’ll decide whether Instagram still has a place in my life.

I know that, from a practical standpoint, stepping away might not be the “smart” choice. Instagram is tied to my blog, after all. But if I want to create meaningful, intentional work—if I want to live authentically—then I have to stay true to myself. And that means protecting my focus, creativity and my voice.

I will keep you posted!

Love,

Wendy

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  1. Was mij het afgelopen weekend nog aan het afvragen hoe het met je was. Ik snap je punt volledig, het is soms zo afleidend en toch haal ik vaak inspiratie van leuke accounts, zoals die van jou!

    1. Dankjewel Annemie voor de lieve en aanmoedigende woorden. Ik ga mijn Instagram momenteel nog niet wegdoen maar ik ga wel actiever zijn op de blog. 🩷🩷🩷

  2. I completely agree with you about Instagram. It can cause a lot of distractions if one is not careful and I too occasionally step away for a break. I’m excited to see more on the blog too and more about your beautiful garden this year and I know you’ll take good care of yourself during this break 🩷🩷

    1. Thank you Katie, for always being so encouraging and supportive.😘 I’m curious, what are your boundaries with Instagram? Do you have monthly or seasonal breaks and how long do they usually last? Keep writing your beautiful and inspiring posts, I know they help me to live a more inspired life. 🩷🩷🩷

  3. This is a struggle many of us business owners share. I applaud you for having the awareness and willingness to do something like this.

    1. Thank you, Arianna. I can imagine how difficult this must be for you and other business owners. Having to be visible all of the time and coming up with new and original ideas at a very high and unnatural pace. It’s also tragic that when pitching a book to publishers, they often look at your Instagram following before even considering your idea.

  4. Lovely read and I do feel the same way. But I love the dog Mumma friends ive made and so the connections and pen pals around the world make it worth it.
    Keep in touch, as we still need to meet in Paris and eat eclairs 🙏💗

    1. You are right Nina, I absolutely agree with you on that. I’ve met some pretty amazing women on Instagram and I most certainly haven’t forgotten about our éclairs!😘 I think it still has worth but when I return, it will be with boundaries because in my opinion, Instagram has become very aggressive in demanding our attention and energy. Talk soon, my darling! I hope you and the pups are well. ♡♡♡

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